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A matter of Choice - Choose positivity

  It was midnight. She switched off the lights of her room and sat on the bed. It was quite dark. She opened a list on her mobile phone. Her eyes were fixed on the mobile screen as if she was searching for herself. Her mind had numerous thoughts. The collision of thoughts made it chaotically chaotic, making her feel lost in her own horizon. Her tears rolled from her eyes and among the spinning thoughts, a thought popped up.

"I couldn't make it happen. I could have done better but..."

A single statement with two poles, the pole of disappointment & pole of EXECUTION FIRE. It depends upon a person what he/she chooses. Execution fire is the indispensable asset for success & Disappointment is the curse eventually. I mean there is positivity & negativity. I don't say you don't feel hurt. Everyone does. We all feel hurt when we fall. We grieve for all that we have done along the way to achieve something. The hard work, the hope, the excitement, and all that good vibes for a moment. But It shouldn't drain the energy we have. All you can do is, sit with those mixed-up emotions. Listen to them, and witness the chaos they create. & Then enlist the negative thoughts & positive thoughts. That can be the procedure for calming your mind. When you have a relaxed mind, I mean mental clarity about certain things you can have mental focus & physical stamina to overcome that phase. & Start again with enthusiasm & stillness. It is all about a matter of choice, choose your positivity.

Peace and love to you.

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